Adult Dean: A nice-sized crowd showed up for the school's band performance. But it didn't much matter to me. Instead of sitting in that band chair, terrified, I was terrified for another reason. [Bill and Dean screaming on a ride] Turns out, my dad had decided to stop being my teacher and just be my dad. It wasn't until I was a father myself that I learned that sometimes what's best for your kids is for you to step out of the way.