Quote from Sophia in Great Expectations
Blanche: It doesn't make any difference, Dorothy. I know what I have to do. In this case, I'm gonna put me first. Sophia: Ooh, now, there's a radical shift in priorities. Blanche: Look, I just don't feel like making this kind of emotional investment. Rose: But Blanche- Blanche: You don't understand. I lost one man I loved when George died. I just won't do it again.