Quote from Sophia in The Housekeeper
Sophia: Oh, Dorothy, before I go, I need your opinion on something. What should I give Phil's daughter as a wedding gift? Your grandmother's lace tablecloth, or 50 bucks towards getting a neck? Dorothy: Give her the tablecloth. Sophia: You're right. She's got a husband. He doesn't care that she looks like Abe Vigoda, why should I?