Quote from Blanche in Nice and Easy
Lucy: In fact, I'm supposed to meet him in a half hour, if that's OK. Blanche: But darling, you just got here. Lucy: Aunt Blanche, you always said, "If you've got a stallion eating oats out of your hand, best close the gate before you give him the sugar." Dorothy: You said that, Blanche? Lucy: I won't go if you don't want me to but I do want to go, so can I? Blanche: Would your mother let you go? Lucy: No. Blanche: Then go.