Quote from Lieutenant Disher in Mr. Monk and the Critic
Lieutenant Disher: Was she dating anyone? Miranda: I think so. She was kind private about that stuff. I think he might've been married. It was just a feeling I got. Captain Stottlemeyer: Did she ever mention any names? Lieutenant Disher: We, found a date book in her apartment. She referred to a man by initial J. Does that mean anything? Miranda: Maybe his name began with a J? Captain Stottlemeyer: Did you just write that down? Lieutenant Disher: I put a question mark after it.