Quote from Claire in Alone Time
Phil: Sweetheart, I-I am as upset as you are, but since when did anything work out the way we planned? We didn't plan on having Haley. We didn't plan on having Alex. We did plan on having Luke, but we didn't plan on having Luke. Claire: I'm having a tantrum. And I love our kids, I do. Most of the time, I do. It's just I had this... this picture of how our life would look right now. [sighs] Phil: This is not that. Claire: No. Phil: Yeah. I get it.