Quote from Phoebe in The One with Barry and Mindy's Wedding
Chandler: Hey, look, Phoebe I wanted to meet her in person too, okay, but she's married, she has a husband. Phoebe: What if the husband person is the wrong guy, and you are the right guy. I mean you don't get chances like this all the time, if you don't meet her now, you're gonna be kicking yourself when your 80, which is hard to do, and that's how you break a hip.