Quote from Phoebe in The One with the Home Study
Phoebe: You know, I had nothing growing up. ... Just like the kids I took the money from. Mike: No. No, no. I see where this is going. Don't make me go back there. Phoebe: Look, I can't have a wedding with this money now. It's tainted. Mike: Fine, we'll give the money back. Phoebe: And if that guy at the charity gives us a hard time, my friend hasn't shot anyone in a really long time.