Quote from Frasier in Room Service
Lilith: Our physical reaction to each other was nothing more than a desperate attempt to reaffirm our own worth. Frasier: Well, that is very impressive, Dr. Sternin. But I too happen to be a psychiatrist. Let me tell you what actually transpired. This was a passive-aggressive manifestation of your deep resentments towards me. Niles, you were punishing me for my notoriety. [to Lilith] You, for my successful adjustment after our divorce. It is this shared bond that brought the two of you to your palace of sweet revenge. Lilith: Allow me to rebut. What a crock. Frasier: It is not! Lilith: It is so. This is yet another example of your complete self-absorption, which is the reason we could not stay together in the first place. Frasier: I have a right to... Why am I defending myself? Niles: If you ask me, you are both off the mark. Last night was about two people, ruled by very powerful superegos, tortured by them, who found a chance, however misguided, to break through and rediscover their ids together. Call me an old softy, but that's how I see it. Frasier: Okay, then, the three of us have certainly analyzed the crap out of this.