[flashback:]
Debra: Okay, look at this. These bridesmaids's dresses. Do you like this color?
Ray: Yeah. They're great if they're going to jog to church at night, I guess.
Debra: Ha ha. Come on, this is important.
Ray: So this is all about the wedding.
Debra: Of course it's about the wedding.
Ray: Wait a minute. Wait a second. What if I told you, forget about all this? Would you still wanna marry me if we couldn't have a big wedding?
Debra: I don't need a big wedding. That's fine.
Ray: Wait, what about what your sister had?
Debra: God, that was way too much. I wouldn't want that anyway.
Ray: So, you're not just excited now about a big wedding? You'd marry me even if we had a small wedding?
Debra: Listen, if you want a small wedding, we'll have a small wedding, okay?
Ray: You're good with a small wedding?
Debra: Of course.
Ray: And I'm still honey?
Debra: Yes, you are.