Quote from Ray in Christmas Present
Ray: Come on, it's like you don't even want to go to the movies. Debra: It's okay. Ray: Wait a minute. You want to not go to the movies. Debra: What? Ray: Yeah, that's right. Because then if you go to the movies, you don't get to say "I never get to go to the movies." Debra: When do I say that? Ray: You say that all the time. "I never get to do anything." You love that. You're like one of those... What do you call them? Debra: A martyr? Ray: Yes!