Quote from Debra in Let's Fix Robert
Debra: Pfft. What a load of crap. Ray: What? Debra: "The right lady's out there." Well, guess what? You're never going to find her. You know why? 'Cause you don't want to. You're alone, 'cause that's what you really want. Robert: I believe you're looking for the meeting across the street. Debra: Let me tell you something. You've created an image of this ideal woman, so that when regular women regular, wonderful, real women fall short, you reject them. Robert: No. Debra: Yes! And that way, you never have to settle down and everyone can still feel sorry for poor, lonely you. Robert: Look, I may not be the greatest catch in the world, but I don't think I should just settle. Debra: I'm not telling you to settle, Robert, but you're not going to be happy if every time you discover a flaw in somebody, you go to somebody else, because that somebody else is going to have her own flaws! Nobody's perfect!