Ray: No, listen, on the first date, it doesn't matter what you do on the date. It all comes down to saying good night. Are you gonna kiss her good night, or is it gonna be a handshake? You can't assume that she wants a kiss, so this is what I do. When the moment arrives, you kind of lean in a little. You've got to see if she's gonna respond to it. Don't go too far, though. Once you reach a certain point, you got to go in, you're committed. Then, if she's not expecting a kiss, you got to whisper something in her ear. "Boy, it's humid."