Quote from Diane in The Proposal
Diane: Sam, if you'll stop that for a moment... [shouts] If you'll stop that for a moment, I'll try and explain my answer. Are you done? Sam: [o.s.] Maybe. Diane: All right, then. As it happens, I came out here with every intention of accepting your proposal but when you spoke of Janet, I had this enormous pang of doubt. "What if wanting to get married "is a knee-jerk reaction to losing her? Does he want me or just someone?" Oh, Sam, I want it so much, but I have to be free of doubt before I can say yes.