Quote from Mary in Sally and Don's First Kiss
Mary: Dick, you can't let her do this. So she doesn't like you. Big deal. If you don't let it bother you, then she has no power over you. Dick: Power? Mary: Power is given. Control is taken. Take control! Dick: You know, you're right. This is about power. She likes watching me squirm. If I don't squirm, she's got nothing. Mary: Exactly. Dick: Oh, Mary, you're so wise. You know so much about this. Tons of people must hate you. Mary: Oh, stop. You're embarrassing me.