Dean Quote #64
Quote from Dean in Brad Mitzvah
Rabbi: What does it mean to become a Jewish man?
Adult Dean: When I saw how nervous Brad was in that moment, I knew I had to make things right.
Rabbi: Joseph is the only son of Jacob who's...
Dean: I gotta go talk to Brad.
Kim: Unh-unh. There's no way I'm letting you make a scene and embarrass...
Dean: Excuse me.
Kim: And there he goes.
Adult Dean: And if it meant embarrassing myself down here to keep Brad from embarrassing himself up there, then that's a price I was willing to pay.
Woman: Ow!
Dean: Oh, ooh. That was an open-toed shoe. I'm sorry. Sorry again. Psst! Hey, Brad. Over here.
Brad: What are you doing? You can't be up here.
Dean: Well, I remembered something that my dad said about getting stage fright before a big show. Just picture everybody's in their underwear. Once they all look crazy, you won't feel so scared. Just be yourself, man. That's all everyone here wants you to be.
The Wonder Years Quotes
‘Brad Mitzvah’ Quotes
Quote from Brad
Brad: For my Bar Mitzvah, I studied a Rabbinic text that explains that every person is given three names. The first is the name given to you by your parents. For me, that was Baruch, my Hebrew name. The second is the name given to you by your friends. For me, that was Brad. But the third is the most important name. It's the name you give yourself. Now, it's that third one I was stuck on. I had to really think about who I was, separate from who people wanted me to be or who people were forcing me to be. Being Jewish in Montgomery means feeling different all the time. I spent a lot of that time... feeling embarrassed about being Jewish. But I don't want to feel that way anymore. So from now on, I'm not just gonna stand by while people make fun of me or try to make me feel bad. No, instead, I'm gonna stand up for myself, for my people, and for what I believe is right.
Now, I may I not know what my third name is yet, but I do know who I am. A proud Jew from Alabama. [laughter] Thank you, and Shabbat Shalom! [applause, crowd shouting "Shabbat Shalom!"]
Adult Dean: It was in that moment that I started seeing Brad in a new light. Up until that point, I could name all the things that made us different, but after Brad's speech, it was clear we had way more in common than I'd ever realized.
Cory: L'chaim!
Adult Dean: And it was those similarities that made us that much closer and our friendship that much stronger, even to this day. Brad later confided in me that he did take my advice and pictured everyone in their underwear. Unfortunately, that also included my sister. [Brad holds the scrolls in front of himself as he backs away] Poor Brad. He needed a moment to compose himself afterwards.
Brad: [to Rabbi] No. No, no.
Quote from Adult Dean
Adult Dean: When you're 12 years old, anything that makes you unique makes you stand out, and that's the last thing you want to do in junior high.
Girl: [to Dean] Can I... touch it?
Adult Dean: Gary Coleman hadn't made the afro part a common sight yet.
Quote from Adult Dean
Adult Dean: While being one of only three Black kids in my class was a more obvious difference, it wasn't so obvious to me how my friend Brad stood out.
Billy: Hey, Brad!
Adult Dean: Even though he looked White, people saw him differently, too.
Billy: There's a penny. [penny clinks] You gonna pick it up? [snickering]
Adult Dean: At 12, I didn't understand the complexity and hate behind the joke. I just knew they were targeting Brad because he was Jewish. And Brad was just doing what we were all doing... Trying to survive junior high.
[After Brad rolls his eyes and walks away with Cory, Dean bends down and picks up the penny]
Adult Dean: I know what you're looking at, but a penny's a penny!