Quote from Blanche in All That Jazz
Dorothy: So what am I supposed to do? Blanche: You have to make him stand on his own two feet. If I were you, I'd kick him out. Dorothy: You really think I should do that? Blanche: Kick him out. I know it sounds hard and cruel, Dorothy, but I've been reading about that very thing. It's called "rough love." Dorothy: No, I think it's "tough love." Blanche: Well, see there? Now, we've both come up with something we oughta try.