Quote from Sophia in Diamond in the Rough
Sophia: You're lucky you have a choice. My marriage was arranged. I didn't have any choice in the matter. Dorothy: You mean, you didn't pick Pop? Sophia: He didn't pick me, either. We learned to love each other, thank God, but it wasn't our idea. There were eight unmarried girls and eight unmarried boys in the village that spring. Blanche: How'd they decide who went with who? Sophia: Height. If I hadn't stood on that rock, I'd have ended up with Luigi the pig-boy.