Quote from Emily in Swan Song
Emily: Well, yes, I've known for weeks actually. But it's good that you confirmed it. Rory: How did you know? Emily: Well, you very abruptly stopped mentioning him eleven dinners ago, so I figured that was the case. Lorelai: Eleven dinners, you kept count? Emily: Eleven. Lorelai: Eleven. Rory: Well, I'm sorry I didn't tell you Grandma. Emily: I think you should have. I mean, what if I had invited Dean to an event and you were no longer with him, and that's how I found out? It would've been embarrassing. Lorelai: What sort of event would you have invited Dean to? Emily: I don't know, a wedding. Lorelai: For who? Emily: A mutual friend or something. Lorelai: You and Dean have mutual friends in common that Rory and I don't? Who would that be, the Talbotts or that senior partner at Delloite and Touche? Emily: You know what I meant. It's always best to tell each other major life events so that there's no awkwardness.