Quote from Marie in The Finale
Frank: All right, look. You almost bought the farm during the adenoid thing, and your mother's making a big deal out of it. Ray: What do you mean? What happened? Debra: You had a little trouble waking up, but it was nothing. Marie: If it was nothing, why didn't anybody tell me? Ray: Well, wait a minute. Get off me, Ma. What happened? Marie: Hold it. I am the mother. And when the mother goes to the bathroom, you have to tell her everything that happened while she was in there.