Ray: Now, hold on. Hold on. I am not selfish! I am not selfish! If there's anything you want, anything I do it! You want me to be more flexible I'm flexing! You want me to talk in an accent? "You go' it, guv'ner." Come on, just tell me what you want. What do you want?
Debra: I want...
Ray: What?
Debra: See, this is what I'm talking about. Why should I have to tell you what I want?
Ray: So I will know.
Debra: Do you know how depressing that is, that after 12 years, you don't know? Why do I have to say it out loud? Why haven't you been paying attention?
Ray: What do you mean, paying attention?
Debra: Oh, you only seem to pick up the signals that affect you. Like, you know what "I'm tired" means, because it means no fun for Raymond. But if I give you the "go" signal, then you just stop paying attention. I could shoot off a flare in here, and you wouldn't even notice.