Debra: We could all be a little nicer to each other. I mean, doesn't your own family deserve the best of you?
Marie: You know, I think Debra's right. You have to be kind. That's how I try to spend my life. Kindness. That's always been my motto.
Frank: Hmm. That's a slightly different motto than ba-ba-ba-ba-bah!
Marie: So kindness isn't just what you say. Sometimes it's what you don't say. It's like, for instance, most of my friends, they do nothing but criticize their daughters-in-law. Me, no. I hold my tongue. Because restraint is important. Right, dear?
Debra: Yes.