Quote from Ray in The Gift
Ray: Maybe he had some weird bond with that fish. You know? Like Flipper. Debra: All right. I don't think it was the particular fish, Ray. I think it was more of a symbolic thing. Ray: You mean, like... What do you mean? Debra: It's his 65th birthday and then, on top of that, Stan dies. You know, it's bound to bring up the question of his own mortality. Ray: Okay, but it was Stan, "the Fish." Debra: Yes, Ray, that's the symbolic part! Ray: I don't think that's it. Debra: Why not? Ray: My father isn't that deep. He doesn't make those connections. He thinks the moral of the Adam and Eve story is: "Don't eat when you're naked." Debra: No, Ray. I think that's definitely it and I think that your father is hiding his feelings. It's normal. You know, he's afraid of dying, and then you give him the gift of death.