Ray: Look, you don't have to say it. It's okay.
Marie: Why is it so important to you all of a sudden? My parents never said it.
Ray: When you were a kid, didn't you want your parents to say it to you?
Marie: Of course.
Frank: But they didn't.
Ray: Why?
Frank: They didn't wanna spoil us.
Ray: Okay, this is the way we wanna be? Is this the way we want the kids to be? I mean, what would be so wrong with saying, "I love you" around here once in a while?
Marie: Well, we're not living in a fairyland here, Raymond.