Quote from Tahani in The Answer
[flashback:] Chidi: Tahani. Thank you so much. That ended up being one of the best nights I've had since we got here. Tahani: You and Eleanor made a good pair. She really tore through that round of charades. Chidi: Well, I'm pretty sure she was reading the cards off the reflection in my glasses, but yeah, that was amazing. Um... Can I ask you something? Tahani: Mm-hmm. Chidi: Tonight could have been a real disaster. How do you have the confidence to just swoop in and so elegantly take charge of a whole group of strangers? Tahani: Honestly, the confidence comes from failure. I've thrown my fair share of disastrous gatherings. Remind me to tell you someday about Timothée Chalamet's bar mitzvah. But you live through the failure and you learn from it.