Quote from Blanche in Sister of the Bride
Blanche: Girls, I just got a letter from my brother, Clayton. He says he's coming for a visit next week and he has a big surprise. Dorothy: Oh, that's wonderful. Blanche: I bet I know what the surprise is, too. Clayton's met himself a girl, and he wants me to meet her. Dorothy: Honey, your brother is gay. Blanche: Dorothy, I think that gay thing was just a phase he was going through. You know, like, when Clay was in high school, all he ever wanted to do was go see gladiator movies. It's the same kind of thing. Dorothy: Almost exactly.