Quote from Blanche in Sister of the Bride
Clayton: Blanche, how could you do that? What did you mean when you told me that you could accept my being gay? Did you mean it was OK so long as I was celibate? It was OK so long as I don't fall in love? Doug is a part of the family now. My family. And if you don't like it, then you don't have to be a part of my family.