Quote from Blanche in Ebb Tide
Dorothy: Listen, Blanche, I think you have to go to the funeral. You wanted to be there for him, be there for him now. Don't let this argument with Virginia stand in your way. Blanche, you're never gonna feel complete until you get to say goodbye. Blanche: You don't understand, Dorothy. If I go to that funeral, he's dead. Dorothy: Blanche, he is.