Quote from Barry in Pretty in Pink
Barry: But, on the upside, I can also feel deeply for others in a time of great need. Erica: I can't believe I'm asking you this, but can you teach me? Barry: Erica, the answer to your troubles is TEEF. Erica: Are you trying to say the word "teeth"? Barry: TEEF. Stands for Tone, Eye contact, Empathy, and Food. Erica: You do know the word "feet" is right there for ya.