Ron Swanson: If a joint is properly fashioned, all you need to do is guide it into place.
[aside to camera:]
Chris: "All you need to do is guide it into place." What I get from that is, when parenting, sometimes a subtle hand is more effective than a strong one. This is already so much more helpful than the last book on parenting I read, Rad Dads by Apolo Anton Ohno and Shaun White.