Quote from Schmidt in Control
Schmidt: I waded into the ocean without my aqua socks. Jess: Mm, he did it. He let go. [flashback to Schmidt jamming with the hippies at the beach] Jess: He washed his hands in a public restroom. Schmidt: And there was a man in there. And he was using the toilet, full sit, no door. And I didn't break eye contact. Not once. Winston: That's not letting go, that's cruising.