Quote from Nick in Kryptonite
Jess: What's wrong with me? Nick: I figured it out. This guy is your kryptonite. You need to stand up and you need to fight him. Jess: I tried to fight him but I can't, because I'm powerless. Nick: Cause you're not ready to let him go. I think you know, deep down, once you get your stuff back, you know, it's over over.