Quote from Andy in The Help
Gloria: No! You make me hire these nannies that I don't like. But when I find one that I like, you fire him?! I am the one that spends most of the time around here! So I get to pick! Andy: Shh. Sometimes the louder we are, the less we're heard.You're frustrated right now, aren't you? Gloria: Yes. Andy: Because you feel like they're not hearing you. Gloria: Yes. Andy: Well, that's exactly how they feel.