Quote from Andy in The Help
Andy: Man, I came on too strong. Gosh dang it! My dad warned me about that when I turned 14. He said, "Son, you're about to be the man of the family. You got to learn to give people time to see how special you are." Manny: Why were you the man of the family? Andy: He sort of died. Manny: How? Andy: I don't want to bring you down, little man. Neither did my dad. He'd say, "My disease can't be all bad if it rhymes with 'answer.'" [oven chimes] Those are the flaxseed muffins that I just baked. I'll just take them out and get out of here. Jay: Andy, wait. We're never gonna eat them.