Quote from Phil in Starry Night
Phil: Claire, I know you've got your methods, but so do I. And I'm sorry, but I'm not a micromanager. Trust me, I can provide Luke with the tools and guidance he needs without, uh, smothering him. Claire: You think I smother our child? Phil: It's not your fault, honey. "Mother" is part of the word. You never hear of anyone being "sfathered" to death.