Quote from Tim in Sisters and Brothers
Jill: Tim, do you have to groan every time Carrie's coming to town? Tim: Yes. Because I know what will happen. She'll make some remarks. You'll think she's criticizing you. Then you'll get real upset and you'll end up criticizing me. Jill: I don't need my sister to come to town to criticize you. Besides, I love Carrie. I'm just not gonna let her push my buttons. Tim: Oh, I've heard this before. The same thing you said when your sister Robin came for Easter, when your parents came for Christmas and weird Aunt Betty came for Thanksgiving. Jill: And your point would be what? Tim: You have a problem with relatives or holidays.