Quote from Jill in Bright Christmas
Jill: Mom, I have to talk to you about something. Um... I hope that you don't hate me for saying this, but I am uncomfortable with you dating. Lillian: Oh, I see. Jill: It doesn't have anything to do with Parker. He's a great guy. It's just so soon after Dad's death. Lillian: Well, it seemed soon to me, too. So that's why when Parker first asked me out in the grocery store, I said no. I thought it would be disrespectful to the memory of your father. Jill: So, you waited till you got to the parking lot? Lillian: For your information, I turned Parker down for weeks. I spent a lot of sleepless nights feeling guilty for even considering going out with him. Jill: Well, Mom, that's what you should feel! I mean, you were married to Dad for 50 years! Lillian: It was 51 years. And seven months. And I don't need you to tell me how I should feel.