Quote from Lorelai in The Fundamental Things Apply
Rory: [answers phone] Mom? Lorelai: Hey. Is he back yet? Rory: No. Lorelai: Say there's a draft and move to the other side of the table. It's very ladylike to feel drafts. He'll totally understand. Rory: Okay, good. Lorelai: And then ask what his brother and sister's names are. He'll like that you cared enough to confirm. Rory: Yeah, that seems right. Lorelai: Don't worry about the conversation. Just talk, and if the talk doesn't flow, it doesn't. And stay away from urine-related topics, and you're good to go. Rory: Thanks, Mom. Lorelai: Oh, the draft thing was Luke's. Rory: Well, thank him for me, too.