Quote from Lorelai in Happy Birthday, Baby
Rory: They were throwing you a party, Mom. Lorelai: Sorry, did I miss something? Did I dance around saying “nyah, nyah, nyah” when I gave her the check? Rory: No. Lorelai: Did, did I not thank her, genuinely thank her, for everything? Rory: Yes. Lorelai: Did I not credit your getting into Yale with them giving us that money? Rory: Yes, but... Lorelai: Nuh-uh. No buts. Listen, Rory, I'm not sure if you're aware of how hard it has been for me these past three years to be indebted to my parents. I decided a long time ago that I was gonna live my life without their help, but I went to them and I took their money and I'm not sorry I did, it was the right thing for you, but I don't need their help anymore. Rory: Fine, but you don't have to just throw it in their faces like that. Lorelai: I paid back a loan. You're supposed to pay back a loan. I have Polonius and then entire banking system on my side.