Quote from Emily in Unto the Breach
Emily: Well, I don't what to do. Should I continue to stagger the hors d'oeuvres or just tell the kitchen to send everything out? Lorelai: I don't know. Emily: What didn't she just say "yes"? Lorelai: I think she's not sure she wants to marry him, Mom. Emily: That's ridiculous. He's a Huntzberger. An offer like this doesn't come around every day. Lorelai: It's a marriage proposal, not a sale on linens.