Quote from Emily in You've Been Gilmored
Emily: I was just asking. After all, I haven't gotten a "save the date" card yet. If you're engaged, I assume you're planning a wedding at some point, not that I've heard anything. Lorelai: I will send you a "save the date" card, mom. Emily: For? Lorelai: For? Emily: What date am I saving? Lorelai: Well, if I tell you that now, then what fun will the card be? Emily: I mean, I assume I'm invited. I haven't heard. I haven't heard if I'm invited, if I'm in the wedding, if I need a dress. And now you won't tell me the date of this wedding that I may or may not be invited to.