Quote from Phoebe in The One Where Rachel Has a Baby (Part 1)
Phoebe: What else? What else? Joey: Well, he's 33. Phoebe: Uh-huh. Joey: A widower. Phoebe: Oh. Joey: He seemed like a standup guy. Phoebe: Uh-huh. Joey: Oh, and he's not into anything weird sexually. Phoebe: Enter Pheebs.