Monica: I'm going to have to talk to him about all this.
Phoebe: No, that is the last thing you want to do.
Monica: Why?
Phoebe: Because you're marrying him.
Monica: You gotta help me out here, Pheebs.
Phoebe: All right, I've never been engaged and I've never really been married. But I can only tell you what my mother told me. Whenever you have doubts or fears or anxieties about a relationship do not communicate them to your husband.
Monica: So I'm not supposed to share my doubts and fears with the guy I'm going to spend the rest of my life with?
Phoebe: That is correct. Yes. You're supposed to take all that stuff and put it in a little box in your mind and then lock it up tight.
Monica: Your mother told you this?
Phoebe: Yes.
Monica: The woman who married a bunch of times and killed herself when you were 13?
Phoebe: Oh, my God, you're right. All right, go. Go tell Chandler. Hurry, before it's too late! Wait. Does this also mean that putting out doesn't get you love?