Quote from Ross in The One Where Phoebe Hates PBS
Ross: So I asked Emily if she would come to New York. And she said yes. Monica: Great. Ross: No, no, no. Only if I promise never to see Rachel again. Monica: What? You can't- What did you tell her? Ross: I told her I'd have to think about it. I mean, how the hell am l supposed to make this decision? [silence] I'm actually asking you.