Quote from Chandler in The One with Ross's New Girlfriend
Rachel: So what did you find out? Chandler: He said- He said- He said they're having a great time. I'm sorry. But the silver lining, if you wanna see it, is that he made this decision all by himself without any outside help whatsoever. Rachel: How is that a silver lining? Chandler: You have to really wanna see it.