Quote from Phoebe in The One with the Boobies
Roger: I'm not at all surprised they feel that way. Phoebe: You're not? You see, that's why you're so great. Roger: Actually, it's quite typical behavior when you have this kind of dysfunctional group dynamic. You know, this kind of codependent, emotionally stunted, sitting in your stupid coffeehouse, with your stupid big cups which, I'm sorry, might as well have nipples on them. And you're all like, "Oh, define me! Define me! Love me! I need love!"