Quote from Phoebe in The One with Rachel's Date
Phoebe: Okay. But the question is, who's gonna go first? Because whoever goes second is the bitch. Monica: What do you mean? Phoebe: Come on, the boss that fires a guy that's just been dumped? Bitch! And the woman who dumps a guy that's just been fired? Blond bitch! Monica: I wanted to do this days ago, so I think I should go first. Phoebe: All right, that makes sense. But screw you! I'm going first!