Quote from Ross in The One with the Sonogram at the End
Ross: So you nervous about Barry tomorrow? Rachel: Uh, a little. A lot. So, got any advice? You know, as someone who's recently been dumped. Ross: Well, you may wanna steer clear of the word "dumped." Chances are he's gonna be this, this broken shell of a man, you know. So you should try not to look too terrific. I know it'll be hard. Or I'll go down there, and I'll give Barry back his ring. And you can go with Carol and Susan to the ob-gyn.