Quote from Chandler in The One with the Home Study
Phoebe: I've made my decision. What I really want is a great big wedding. Monica: Yay! Chandler: But you already gave all the money to charity. Phoebe: Well, I'll just ask for it back. Chandler: I don't think you can do that. Monica: Why not? This is her wedding day. That's way more important than some stupid kids. Chandler: That's sweet, honey, but save something for the adoption lady.