Quote from Monica in The One with the Cake
Rachel: And, I mean, you know, you guys, this is a big deal. I mean, how can we have her first birthday party without her aunt and her uncle? Monica: All right, we'll stay. We can just drive up after the party. Chandler: Fine. But if we end up not doing this Maxim thing because of this party- Monica: Believe me, that is not why we won't be doing that.